Hello Friends, Yesterday, while walking along the roadside, I happened to meet Mr. Successful. Out of his busy schedule, he was kind enough to give me a few minutes of his precious time. I asked him, "Mr. SUCCESSFUL, I also want to become successful in my life. Could you give me a few tips?" The secrets of success that he shared with me, I am sharing with you. He said: I have 3 B’s of Success. Bald, Belly & Binoculars (Specs). I got first heart attack when I was not even 40 years old. I take sleeping pills regularly. Twice a [...]
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Hello Friends, Anger, no doubt, is a negative & harmful emotion but also has some GOOD attached to it. Therefore, I say Anger is a Necessary Evil. Before I proceed further, I would like to highlight that: "Anger is a necessary evil" only for those who have no experience of Spirituality or Meditation. Once you practice meditation, you would experience that Anger transforms into Empathy, Compassion & love. An example, to understand, is Jesus, who could forgive even those who were crucifying him. It is the sublimated anger which had transformed into love & compassion through the process of meditation. You may find numerous [...]
For Happy Marriage, we have discussed in my earlier blog “Increase Happiness in Your Relationships”, that there is only one single rule: "UNDERSTAND THE OTHER AND ACCEPT THE WAY HE/SHE IS" In this article we shall discuss the 4th recommendation for Happy Marriage. You may see my earlier three recommendations on Conquer The Success Blogs . RECOMMENDATION 4: Give & Take Feedback Positively As a Marriage Counselor, another common reason of unhappiness among couples, that I have experienced is that we lack the art of Taking & Giving feedback. Every Person Has Good & Bad qualities When two people live together, it is very natural [...]
For Happy Marriage, we have seen in my earlier blog “Increase Happiness in Your Relationships”, that there is only one rule: UNDERSTAND THE OTHER AND ACCEPT THE WAY HE/SHE IS In this article we shall discuss the 3rd recommendation for Happy Marriage. You may see my blogs on Conquer The Success Blogs for first two recommendations on Happy Marriage. In this blog, I wish to share my third recommendation for Happy Marriage. RECOMMENDATION 3: Avoid Adjustments: Adjustment Spoils the Married Life Many of you might be surprised by this recommendation. Since our early childhood, we have been told to make adjustments in the relationship. We [...]
Depression is one of the major reasons of bad health, psychosomatic problems & disabilities across the globe. World Health Organization (WHO) Statistics More than 300 million people are suffering from depression worldwide. More than 18% increase since 2005 to 2015. Lack of support for people with mental disorders, coupled with a fear of stigma, prevent many from accessing the treatment they need to live healthy, productive lives. WHO launched a full year campaign "Depression: Let's Talk"; with a mission that more people with depression, everywhere in the world, both seek and get help. What is Depression? As per the dictionary definition, Depression is [...]
For Happy Marriage, we have seen in my earlier blog “Increase Happiness in Your Relationships”, that there is only one rule: UNDERSTAND THE OTHER AND ACCEPT THE WAY HE/SHE IS In this article I shall discuss my 2nd recommendation for Happy Marriage. RECOMMENDATION 2: DON’T BE JUDGMENTAL As a Marriage Counselor, I have experienced another very common reason of unhappiness among couples and that is We Become Judgmental. We can understand from our experience. Suppose we have gone to watch a movie and liked it very much. After we come back and meet a friend and tell him about the movie. Invariably, [...]
For Happy Marriage, you have seen in my last blog Increase Happiness in Your Relationships, that there is only one rule UNDERSTAND THE OTHER AND ACCEPT THE WAY HE/SHE IS To implement this rule in our life, Recommendation-1 :Respect The Differences "It is not necessary that the other is always wrong; he might be different". As a marriage counselor, I have experienced very common reason of unhappiness in married life and that is THE ONE WHO DOES NOT THINK/ BEHAVE LIKE ME, IS WRONG. Let us understand from an example. Wife’s Version During the counseling session, wife would say that I love [...]
To Choose the Right Career is first & the foremost step towards Success & Happiness in life. In this article we will understand reasons and various dimensions which help us to choose the right career. What is the meaning of Career? Definition from Cambridge Dictionary The job or series of jobs that you do during your working life especially if you continue to get better jobs and earn more money In Nut Shell Career means to become FINANCIALLY INDEPENDENT at the right age. Three Stages in Career Growth With the passage of time, our career should give the following: Financial Security: Every [...]
“Add Wings to Your Performance” is a training with an objective to fill the gap between "Attending the Training" and "Implementing the Learning from it". Once you attend this training, your performance is bound to increase many fold. We know that there are only two steps to SUCCESS: To decide what to do. To implement the decisions. (My last blog was on step 1 i.e. “Taking the Right Decision”. If you have not gone through it yet, the link is given below. You may go through it. Taking The Right Decision Once you start implementing what you learn or decide, there [...]
Taking the Right Decision is the first step towards Success & Happiness. Two Basic Needs SUCCESS & HAPPINESS are our two basic needs. One is incomplete without the other. “SUCCESS” & “HAPPINESS” are like two wings of the bird called LIFE. If both the wings of the bird are healthy, it knows no boundaries and flies to the infinite dimensions of the open sky. I hope you have seen my earlier blog, wherein we have discussed how our Consciousness moves in and out for SUCCESS & HAPPINESS. If you have not gone through as yet, I would recommend you to click [...]